Finally getting out of the house to spend some much needed time with your spouse? No matter how long you’ve been married or how much you know about your husband, there is still so much to learn! Asking questions on a date night can help bridge that gap.
Intentionally growing in knowledge of your husband tends to be pushed off; especially when it comes to how he is feeling on a regular basis.
On your date, be sure to set aside some time in the car and at dinner to purposefully check in to see how your husband is REALLY doing. When I do this with my husband, I like to try and cover a few areas of his life to make sure he’s able to process a few things, and to show him my love and genuine care for him.
If you’re short on time for talking, or if your husband is not much of a talker and processes things in smaller chunks, consider choosing only 2 or 3 questions to ask. This can encourage further conversation and deeper relationship building during your time together.
You may be surprised by what you learn about one another!
Here Are 10 Questions to Ask Your Husband Husband on a Date:
- What is something that God has been teaching you lately?
- How have you seen God work in the last week?
- What is something I have or haven’t done that makes you feel loved?
- In what way(s) do you think our marriage could be stronger?
- What is one way I could initiate sex with you this week?
- Is there an activity in which you’d like for me to join you? If so, what?
- How are you doing mentally and emotionally?
- How can I best support you when you are feeling down?
- What is one of your favorite things to do with our kids?
- What could I do to help you get some rest this week?
By the way, if you’re itching for some unique, budget friendly date night ideas, check out this post!
I also found this cute $5 notebook if you’re determined to remember what your husband told you:
If you’re on a longer drive and you’re in need of some more questions to ask, here’s another great resource to consider! This blog post includes 75 date night questions to help you connect better with your spouse.
I would love to hear how your conversation went! Share below a new insight you learned about your husband.
